Of course I don’t know for sure, but I imagine that if you did lay off they would wind up contacting you! I can understand this must feel really bumming! It’s more likely that if you are the one asking, that is simply the dynamic that has come about - I hope this makes sense, naturally I would say sometimes friendships fall into a dynamic of one contacting the other- and if you are the one who does this, it’s likely your friends aren’t, not because they don’t care but just because they feel, ‘well I don’t need to contact anon, cuz anon will inevitably contact me!’ - not In a cruel way though! I have several close friends who tell me they tend not to contact people just cuz ppl tend to contact them first, And I’m the same, there are some people who do the initiating and some people in which I initiate! So yeah, I imagine if you cooled off, they would contact you, if anything be worried because it’s out of the ordinary for you :) However, honestly, if you’re feeling a little neglected (which I can understand) I personally whole heartidly would recommend confronting your friends about it if you can- it’s really good just to be open with people if you can, so these things can be straightened out :) I really hope this helps!! X
They will find time to spend with you, even if it’s 5 minutes out of the day. “Busy” or not.
It’s just not true.
If the trust is reciprocal, than you don’t need to talk every day. Sometimes people are…
It’s difficult to trust that people don’t like you if they can’t be around- but if you suffer from this worry, have you ever considered how detrimental that can be to a relationship? Not only does this idea allow for unrealistic expectations of your friends and family- so when they really can’t be there, you feel more abandoned than ever- but also allowing people to support other people every single moment is allowing them to say, ‘you’re NOT ok. You’re NOT strong. You CAN’T do this by yourself.’
as positive as it feels, for both parties, it is emotional reliance, and it means you are putting your ability to rely on your own self esteem and to move forward, in Danger. also note that, everyone has their own shit, we can’t always emotionally be there for each other. It can be tiring, time consuming, and then nobody helps nobody!
The solution Is to think about How you’re saying these things- no, friends will not always find time for each other- it’s physically impossible- sometimes! BUT! A true friend will always have your best interests at heart, no matter what time of day- a friend will always WANT to support you as Best They Can, even if they can’t always. The intention and care for your friends is something that can be around 24/7 xx
Indeed :) x
Well, I FEEL VERY GOOD ABOUT THIS YES- How exciting!! I-is this a possible thing?! This would be amazing to hear! Please, if it ever happens let me know about it - incredible! Just the idea that someone would want to interoperate the comic like this is an Honour, thank you thank you thank you!! Xxx
an illustration about a ‘sex’ dream (but not really) - sex dreams tend to make me laugh- your brain temporaily changing your whole perception on someone you know- b/c what are these feelings and perceptions in the dream based from?!
front cover for a volume one- it was really hard to do b/c you can’t give away much of the story and have to at the same time make an exciting cover that gets at the theme of the book. the first two chapters and this volumeas a whole really revolve around these two, hence the cover choice…! thanks to marcel and Gill :) xxx